My last comment was meant to be the opposite of doom and gloom! Results haven't gone our way, yet we're still 6th.
And our ability to beat the top teams is still there, it's against teams who treat us as the bigger threat where we struggle recently.
We beat Spurs and Chelsea, lost 10v12 against Liverpool, and drew against...Villa, Leeds, Sunderland, Hull, and Bournemouth, either our peers or "below". We're struggling to impose our gameplan when we're treated as the "aggressor", and that is where we're suffering. This was a continuation of that, as Sunderland had no intention of playing football. Worst for me was when that winger rolled on the ground for 5 minutes clutching his head, feigning head injury for Diouf's high boot...when there was literally zero contact.
THAT is where I would like to see VAR intervention, he should be yellow carded. There were countless cases against last night of Sunderland players dropping like flies, while we stood our ground and didn't get decisions. I KNOW we all hate to see it, but we need to speak with the refs and make it understood: if that is what gets decisions, we need to start pretending we've been shot. As we're not getting the decisions atm., and it's not because we're in the wrong, it's about perception.